User blog comment:High Prince Imrahil/*Sigh*/@comment-25356210-20160926192457/@comment-26347028-20160926202313

The thing is, people are uneasy, and a lot of what I say can be taken out of context. I know you may say you've forgotten what I did. But what you've done is forgiven me. To be brutally honest, I don't care if you think I'm a nuisance or your friend, we all deserve a good amount of respect. And that respect should spread to inclusivism.

But for most it doesn't. I don't want to force a "now say sorry and you can be friends again" or as our English teacher punished his children, by making them hug. It's simply not what you do, because it doesn't work.

Now, I'd also like to bring something to light. Without touching on the specific issues, I was on chat not too long ago, and Faenor seemed to be addressing Patrick in the main chat room. He asked a question, and Patrick seemed AFK, so I answered. Faenor then did a "I'm not talking to you" sort of thing, and left I think. Well, nothing much happened anyway until the next event.

He comes on again, I say hello, and he makes some sort of snarky comment about how he isn't really happy to see me. As anyone would be, I'm a little ticked off. So I go through the "why?" bit of it. I can't remember exactly, but he then tried to say that I shouldn't be causing trouble, that everything I was saying he'd said was false (which it wasn't, and I can prove that…) and that I should stop with the allegations. I think by this point someone chimed in "you seem to just be trying to make her angry" which, he responded to with "so what if I am" which I think said it all in the scenario.

Anyway, the point I'm trying to make is even before this he specifically said he wouldn't care if my brother committed suicide, and that the "struggles of a mere teenaged boy" we're nothing compared to his. Because the only thing worse than attempting suicide is succeeding. And therefore I don't quite think Faenor is being truthful there.

So, it's not a question of "it takes two to argue". We have a right to be offended. If someone is aggravating someone else, then they should be stopped. And if they then get punched, I don't think this should be at all treated as if they're equally at fault. Because they're not.

In this example I must say I'm definitely not the best of sources, but I can say for a certainty that there was only one real instigator. If someone dislikes me, fine. But if you disrespect me, that's not fine.