User blog comment:High Prince Imrahil/*Sigh*/@comment-26347028-20160926062956

The thing is, even if we make a big show of forgiving each other, we won't. We just won't. Because we can't.

Now, if we're going to point the finger, I'd like to point out that as far as I can tell a fair few people are still holding grudges. I mean, I gave up on that a good while ago, but the point I'm making is this is generally a problem for both sides, which really just need to see that the other isn't so horrible. But realistically speaking, I do think time helps.

Not too long ago Ed apologised for being a little tense around me. When Eureka and I were first going out, I think this was. What I'm saying by this is if it took so long, I'm wondering if time really did help soothe the problem, or if you simply need to have a friendly chat again.

But I think we have started to dehumanise each other.

The one thing I will say is that doing a primary school style "say sorry and we can all be friends again" is gross negligence of human nature.